Seduction – You're Guide to Getting Girls

Today I want to talk about an important topic for guys, especially young guys in their teens and twenties and that is: how to get the girl of your dreams to go out with you.  This can be a touchy subject for some guys, so I want to address the key points and mentalities you’re going to need to have if you want that special one to go out with you.

Let’s get too it. Firstly, get rid of the scripted material.  These will screw yup up more than you know.  You’ll end up racing through the conversation and not paying attention to her at all.  You want to have a general idea of what you’re going to say but nothing more than that.  Keep it natural, you don’t want to get called out for some bogus line someone else tried on her.

Being a natural at seducing girls can be achieved with a good amount of practice.  Side note: REJECTION IS INEVITABLE – DEAL WITH IT.  All those tales about guys never getting rejected are all lies.  Your success with women is directly based on the amount of rejection you face.

Furthermore, STOP being the “nice guy”.  As the saying goes, nice guys finish last.  The nice act is what gets you into the friend zone.  That is not where we want to be.  We want to get in her bed.  And thus, we’re going to reverse the usual process of pick up.  We’re going to be cocky, arrogant, funny, charming, playful and the list goes on.  Nice guys are usually one dimensional and predictable – don’t be that.

Don’t fear approach anxiety anymore, let’s cover this right now.  Start approaching one person a day and build up from there.  This is a shortcut to decreasing AA.  There’s no point in opening 100 women the first day, you will just get a lot of rejection – not much else.  So take my advice as follows.  Begin by approaching a few girls and steadily build up from there.

Part of being successful with women is being dominant.  Nice guys are submissive.  If you’re cool, confident and in control you will be the guy who gets that girl.  This means you have to be sure of yourself.  Women can see right through you if you “pretend,” so don’t do it.  You’re “The Man,” you need to believe this with every fiber of your being.

When it comes to being confident, another key factor is looking fantastic.  You’re not going to look your best or anywhere near it if you look horrible?  You don’t have to go to fashion school but put some thought into what you’re going to wear.  Have your shoes match your belt.  Wear something that fits you well and that’s in style.  Again, being on the cutting edge of fashion isn’t required.  The most important key is to find a brand that fits your style and body.

This leads me to a question a lot of guys ask, do looks matter?  It’s in how you present yourself but yes, looks do matter.  In terms of genetics, being naturally good looking helps but when women say they want a good looking guy they’re really referring to his style.  What factors come into play then: are you in shape, are you well dressed, are you hygienic .

Men today are getting larger by the minute. It doesn’t hurt to be proud of your body.  Better yet, get down to your local gym and start getting your butt in shape today, don’t do this so much for other people, do it for yourself.  I won’t bore you with the great benefits of exercise and a fantastic nutrition plan though.

Last of all, hit the pavement and start meeting new people.  The best way to learn is to experience it first hand.  Your happiness is directly related to the amount of action you take – start taking action.

Hopefully this was helpful for rearranging your beliefs and putting you in the right mindset when it comes to getting that dream girl to go out with you.